We meet at 7pm Thursdays at Detroit Friends Meetinghouse, 6227 W Fort St., Detroit MI 48209. Also we are experimenting with first Sundays of the month at 4pm at All Saints Neighborhood Center, 8300 Longworth, Detroit MI 48209.
I think we met once at Crossroads meeting. It sounds like you might enjoy a visit to our worship group here in Detroit, New City Friends. We are Christian, try to be missional and affirming, and probably fall in with your 'life story' above. Right now we meet every Thursday evening and once a month on Sunday afternoon. More info at http://newcityfriends.wordpress.com , we'd love to have you!